1. Understanding the reasons behind her decisiveness: We need to delve into why she behaves so decisively. It may be accumulated long-term dissatisfaction, poor communication, differences in values, or some kind of harm. Understanding her current situation and mentality through indirect means such as mutual friends or social media, but avoiding direct disturbance, can help you more accurately grasp where the problem lies.
2. Sincere reflection and change: Based on the reasons understood, deeply reflect on one's own problems in the relationship and take practical actions to change and improve oneself. This is not only to save her, but also for personal growth. Ensure that your changes are sincere and can show her the importance you place on this relationship and hope for the future.
3. Establish friendly communication and show sincerity: When you feel the time is right and you have made significant changes, you can try to establish a connection with her in a gentle and respectful way. Choose a comfortable environment and start a conversation as a friend, expressing your apologies, understanding, growth, and the feelings you still have for her. But remember not to force her to respond immediately, give her enough time and space to consider. At the same time, maintain patience, continuously demonstrate your sincerity and change, but also respect her decision and do not force it.