1. Clarify communication intention: Find an appropriate time to have face-to-face communication with the other party with a sincere attitude. Express your feelings about the current relationship directly, for example: "I think we have a pleasant relationship, but I'm not sure what our current relationship is positioned as. I would like to hear your thoughts and would you be willing to further define our relationship
2. Listen and respect the other person's feelings: After expressing your intentions, give the other person sufficient space and time to express their thoughts and feelings. Listen carefully, avoid interruptions, and respect the other person's opinions. If the other party has concerns or different opinions, try to understand and discuss solutions together.
3. Jointly determine the future direction: Based on the results of communication between both parties, jointly determine the next step of the relationship. If both parties are willing to further develop their relationship, it can be clarified that they will become lovers; If one or both parties feel the need for more time to consider, a time frame can be set to re-examine the relationship; If one party is not interested, it should be accepted in a mature and friendly manner, and a mutually acceptable ending should be sought.