1. Understanding and respect: Everyone has their own past, including emotional experiences. It is important to understand and respect her past, rather than being overly fixated on her exes.
2. Building trust: Communicate openly with her, share each other's thoughts and feelings, and gradually establish a deeper trust relationship. Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship.
3. Focus on the present and future: Focus on your current relationship and future plans, rather than looking back too much on the past. Create your own memories and future together, making the relationship stronger.