1. Emotional aspect: Paying attention to the dynamics of the ex reflects to some extent the incomplete release of personal emotions, especially if this attention triggers emotional fluctuations or affects the stability of the current marriage, it may not be normal. A healthy marital relationship should be built on mutual trust and focus on the current partner.
2. Personal habits and curiosity: Sometimes, following the updates of an ex may just be a personal habit or out of simple curiosity, especially in today's era of social media popularity, where people are prone to unintentionally browsing through information about old friends or exes. If this kind of attention does not have a negative impact and individuals are able to recognize and control their emotional boundaries, then it can be considered relatively normal.
3. Communication and Transparency: In marriage, if attention to the ex becomes an issue, it is best to have open and honest communication with the partner. Through communication, ensure that both parties have a clear understanding of the relationship and jointly decide how to handle this concern to maintain the health and stability of the marriage. Lack of communication or concealment may exacerbate unnecessary misunderstandings and suspicions.