1. Curiosity and Nostalgia: Boys secretly check their ex's space, often out of curiosity, wanting to know about their ex's current situation, including life status, emotional changes, etc. At the same time, accompanied by nostalgia, recalling the time they spent together, there is a certain nostalgia and reluctance towards the past.
2. Self confirmation and comparative psychology: In the process of checking the ex space, boys may unconsciously compare themselves with their current life to confirm whether their choices are correct or evaluate whether their position in the ex's mind has changed. Behind this psychological behavior lies a need to confirm self-worth and seek recognition.
3. Unresolved emotional entanglements and release process: For some boys, secretly checking their ex space may be a way to deal with unresolved emotions. They may not have fully let go of this relationship and seek psychological comfort or relief through this approach. At the same time, this is also a process of gradually letting go, by observing and accepting the current situation of the ex, helping oneself slowly step out of the shadow of the past.