1. Respect and accept reality: recognize that everyone has their own choices and responsibilities, including your lover's choice to return to the family. Respecting their decision and accepting this reality is the first step in dealing with this situation.
2. Self reflection and growth: Use this time to reflect on yourself, think about what you have learned in this relationship, and identify areas where you need to grow or change. Pay attention to your emotional health and deal with loss and sadness in a healthy way, such as seeking psychological counseling, participating in interest activities, or communicating with friends and family.
3. Set personal boundaries and look forward: clarify your boundaries in future relationships and life, and no longer entangle yourself with this already ended relationship. Focus on your own life and goals, and seek new sources of happiness and satisfaction. Meanwhile, maintaining an open mindset may lead to the emergence of more suitable individuals in the future.