1. Inconsistent words and deeds: He may make many promises to you, but rarely or never truly fulfill them. For example, often saying 'I'll take you to that delicious restaurant next time' but never putting it into action.
2. Lack of in-depth communication: When interacting with you, he tends to engage in superficial small talk and avoids discussing personal feelings, future plans, and other topics in depth. He is not interested in your inner world, nor does he share his deep thoughts.
3. Frugality with time and energy: He always excuses himself from spending time with you for various reasons, and even when we are together, he appears absent-minded. He is particularly stingy when it comes to maintaining relationships that require time and effort, unwilling to invest too much for you.