1. Listening and Understanding: Give her a quiet listening space, allowing her to freely express her inner feelings without interrupting or rushing to give advice. Tell her that your understanding of her feelings is real and normal, and that missing her after a breakup is part of the emotional recovery process, making her feel supported and understood.
2. Encourage self-healing: Remind her that time is the best healing medicine. Encourage her to participate in activities that bring her happiness and relaxation, such as sports, reading, traveling, or learning new skills. These activities help to distract her attention, gradually allowing her to step out of the shadows of the past and rediscover her self-worth and the joy of life.
3. Looking forward to the future and facing it positively: Help her set some short-term and long-term goals, whether in terms of career or personal growth. Make her realize that there are infinite possibilities in the future, and every experience, including her relationship with her ex, is an indispensable part of her growth journey. Encourage her to bravely look forward and believe that she will meet more suitable people in the future to create better memories together.