1. Enhance observation skills: Carefully observe people and things around you, pay attention to details, and understand the motivations behind different people's behaviors and words. Learn to analyze problems from multiple perspectives, avoid drawing conclusions easily, and maintain sensitivity and judgment towards information. Practice interpreting others' emotions and intentions through nonverbal information.
2. Enhance communication skills: Learn effective communication techniques, including listening, questioning, and feedback, to better understand others' needs and convey one's own intentions. Using vague language and indirect expression to avoid direct conflict in certain situations while achieving one's own goals. Master persuasive skills and influence others' decisions through logical, emotional, or social identification.
3. Develop strategies and plans: Set clear goals and develop detailed plans and strategies for this purpose, considering various possible situations and response measures. Learn to weigh the pros and cons and make the most advantageous choice for yourself, even if it means temporarily compromising or hiding true intentions. Cultivate patience and perseverance, not rush for success, and gradually achieve one's goals through long-term planning.
Although enhancing these abilities can bring advantages in certain situations, excessive use of mental skills may damage interpersonal relationships and trust. It is recommended to maintain integrity and kindness, use wisdom and strategy to solve problems, rather than harming others solely for personal gain.