1. Show interest and resonance: Ask open-ended questions such as "What have you been particularly interested in recently?" or "Are there any books/movies that have left a deep impression on you?" to guide him to share and show your curiosity about his world. Listen carefully to his answer and provide timely feedback, such as "Wow, that sounds really cool!" or "I completely understand how you feel," to establish an emotional connection. Share your own similar experiences or feelings to increase resonance, such as' I have had such an experience before, it feels really special '.
2. Show confidence and charm: Maintain eye contact, smile naturally, and showcase your confidence and positive attitude. Show your sense of humor in a timely manner and adjust the atmosphere in a relaxed way, such as inserting a joke or self deprecation at the appropriate time. Emphasize your personal strengths or achievements, but in a humble and shareable manner, such as "I have been learning new skills recently, and although I am still exploring, I feel a sense of accomplishment.
3. Create a sense of closeness and expectation: Invite him to participate in joint activities, such as "If you have free time on the weekend, would you like to try that newly opened restaurant together?" or "I heard there is a great exhibition, do you want to go see it together?" Use gentle and ambiguous titles, such as "baby" or "dear", or give him a nickname based on his characteristics to increase intimacy. At the end of the conversation, leave a suspense or expectation, such as "I really want to hear your story tomorrow, let's talk about it tomorrow!" or "Remember, next time tell me your favorite travel destination.