1. Men's preferences for whether women should be active or passive vary from person to person, but generally speaking, many men appreciate women showing a certain degree of initiative in certain situations, such as expressing interest, inviting dates, etc.
2. At the same time, there are also men who prefer women to maintain a certain level of passivity and reserve, believing that this increases women's charm and mystery.
The key lies in the interaction and communication between both parties, finding a comfortable balance point for both. Whether active or passive, sincerity and respect for the other person's feelings are the most important.