1. Establish a deep emotional connection: Sincere communication: Maintain open and honest communication with her, share your feelings, dreams, and daily life, and also listen to her stories and voices. Show care: Show care for her in daily life, whether it's her emotional changes or small things in daily life, it can reflect your concern. Growing together: Seeking common interests, hobbies, or goals, experiencing challenges and successes together, such experiences will deepen your emotional bond.
2. Give positive feedback and recognition: Timely praise: When she does something that you appreciate, don't hesitate to praise her, let her feel valued and appreciated. Encourage experimentation: Support her in pursuing her personal dreams and interests, even in the face of failure, give her encouragement, and let her know that you will always be her strongest support. Gratitude expression: Express gratitude for her efforts and care in a timely manner, letting her know that these actions are seen and valued.
3. Show your value and express your needs appropriately: Improve yourself: Continuously invest in yourself, make progress in your career, interests, or personal growth, and let her see your value and potential. Moderate dependence: Show her your vulnerable side or moments of need at the appropriate time, giving her the opportunity to give for you and feel the satisfaction of being needed. Clear expression: Express your expectations and needs in a gentle and respectful manner, directly and clearly, but avoid becoming someone who demands excessively. Make her understand that your needs are based on considerations for a closer and more harmonious relationship between both parties.
Remember, true giving and giving in a healthy relationship are mutual and should be based on mutual respect, understanding, and love.