1. Maintain open communication: Share openly with your mother about the progress of your relationship with your boyfriend, including his strengths, your common interests, and goals. At the same time, it is important to listen to your mother's opinions and suggestions, although not necessarily fully accepting them, understanding her concerns and expectations is crucial. Keep communication channels open, so that both parties can feel respected and understood.
2. Find commonalities: Try inviting your mom to participate in activities that both you and your boyfriend enjoy, such as family gatherings, outdoor outings, or watching movies together. This not only enhances the emotional connection between the three, but also allows the mother to better understand your boyfriend in a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere. At the same time, encourage boyfriends to take the initiative to care for their mothers, showing their attentiveness and thoughtfulness, such as giving gifts during holidays, daily greetings, etc.
3. Respect each other's space: Recognize that everyone has their own living space and boundaries, including mom and your boyfriend. Don't force them to quickly establish an intimate relationship, but give each other time to understand and adapt to each other. At the same time, you should also express your respect and support for them at the appropriate time, making them feel that you are a bridge between them, rather than the source of creating conflicts. When dealing with problems, maintain neutrality and impartiality, and strive to balance the feelings and needs of both parties.