1. Seeking emotional support or freshness: Married women may face emotional gaps or monotony in their marriage. Chatting with the opposite sex can serve as an emotional supplement, seeking understanding, resonance, or simple emotional communication to alleviate inner loneliness or pursue novelty and excitement.
2. Seeking self-identity and sense of value: Through communication with the opposite sex, women may hope to showcase their charm, wisdom, or abilities in order to gain their appreciation and recognition. This external affirmation helps to enhance self-identity and sense of value, and meet psychological needs.
3. Escaping reality or seeking an outlet: The pressure, dissatisfaction, or conflicts that may exist in marital life make women feel suppressed or want to escape. Chatting with the opposite sex has become a temporary escape from reality, allowing them to temporarily let go of the troubles in marriage and enjoy a moment of relaxation and freedom.