1. Listen to his feelings: Give him a chance, listen carefully to why he wants to break up, don't interrupt or immediately refute, understand his position and feelings.
2. Rational communication: After understanding his thoughts, calmly express your own feelings and opinions, try to identify the root of the problem, see if there is a possibility of a solution, and emphasize your willingness to work together to improve the relationship.
3. Respect decision: If after communication, he still insists on breaking up, respect his decision, express your understanding and blessings to him, and tell him that you hope both of them can find true happiness.