1. Understanding male self-esteem and face: Respect his choices and decisions, even if they may not seem the optimal solution to you, give him the space to try. Moderately praise him in public or in front of friends, avoid direct criticism or embarrassing him, and maintain his face. Encouraging him to pursue personal goals, demonstrating confidence and support for him, can help enhance his self-esteem.
2. Master the art of communication: Express your needs and feelings directly and clearly, avoiding men guessing your thoughts. When listening, give full attention and do not rush to interrupt or provide solutions, making him feel valued and understood. In conflicts, use the "I" statement to express feelings, reduce blame, and work together to find solutions rather than arguing about right or wrong.
3. Understanding male emotional expression: Recognizing that men tend to express love and care through actions rather than words, learn to capture their emotions from details. Give him personal space and time to handle his emotions, and do not force him to share or solve all problems immediately. Encourage him to express his emotions openly, but also understand that this may take time and patience, and not rush for success.