1. Maintain a sense of mystery: When chatting, do not rush to reveal all your information or emotions. You can share some interesting but not too personal things in a timely manner, while maintaining a certain level of silence or vague answers to certain topics, making them curious about you and wanting to further understand you.
2. Timely withdrawal: When the chat atmosphere becomes lively or he shows strong interest, it may be helpful to find a reasonable excuse to temporarily end the conversation, such as "I have something to deal with now, I'll talk later" or "We had a great chat today, but I want to go to bed early". This approach can make him feel your independence and unattainability, thus cherishing every communication with you even more.
3. Show self-worth: In conversation, not only should you listen to his sharing, but you should also timely showcase your talents, interests, or achievements. By sharing your insights, experiences, or dreams, let him see where your unique charm and value lie. This can not only attract his attention, but also make him show respect and appreciation towards you, thus being more proactive in pursuing you.