1. Catch and play: This is a strategy or technique that intentionally releases the opponent first, allowing them to relax their guard, fully expose themselves, and then capture them. In interpersonal relationships or emotional communication, it is often used to temporarily distance oneself from the other person in order to arouse their curiosity or anxiety, thereby making them cherish or actively approach.
2. Pinch you: "Pinch" here refers to mastering, controlling, or influencing the other person's psychology and behavior. In context, it means successfully manipulating or guiding the other person to act or react according to one's own expectations through some means, such as a strategy of playing hard and easy.
3. Combining explanation: "Catch and play to control you" generally refers to the use of a strategy of "play and play" to influence and control the emotions or behaviors of the other party through temporary distancing or indulgence, so that the other party can act according to their own will unconsciously. This technique may be used in romantic relationships, interpersonal communication, or business negotiations.