1. Communication understanding: Communicate your feelings candidly with her and express your position using "I" language, such as "I feel that my opinions have not been fully considered in certain things, which makes me feel a little disappointed". Try to understand the reasons behind her dominance, which may be personal experiences, family environment, or habits formed by work demands. This will help you view her behavior more inclusively.
2. Establishing consensus and boundaries: jointly discussing decision-making methods that are acceptable to both parties in the family and relationship, such as setting up a "family meeting" to give everyone an equal opportunity to speak. Clarify the boundaries between individuals and relationships, determine which things you can independently decide and which ones require negotiation between both parties, and ensure that both parties have sufficient space and freedom.
3. Improving oneself and seeking balance: Enhancing self-confidence and independence, improving oneself through learning, hobbies, and other means, so that when facing her dominance, you can be more calm and composed. Seek professional advice, such as emotional counselors or marriage counselors, who can provide neutral perspectives and effective communication skills to help you find a more harmonious way of getting along. Cultivate common interests and hobbies, increase opportunities for interaction and cooperation, and make relationships more balanced and harmonious.