1. Inner Struggle and Contradiction: Men may feel extremely conflicted, both having a sense of responsibility towards their existing marriage and family, and finding it difficult to resist the emotions of a new and attractive girl. He may frequently contemplate whether this new attraction is legitimate, while feeling guilty towards his wife.
2. Maintain distance and self reflection: In order to avoid further harm to the marriage, he will strive to maintain an appropriate distance from the girl he is attracted to and reduce unnecessary contact. At the same time, he will engage in self reflection, assess his emotional state, and consider whether this new relationship is just a temporary passion or whether it is truly worth giving up the existing stable relationship.
3. Communication and seeking solutions: Mature men may choose to openly communicate their feelings to their wives, including the girl they have met and their inner struggles. They may discuss together how to strengthen the emotional connection between spouses, or identify potential issues in marriage and address them to maintain family stability and happiness. At the same time, it is also possible to seek more suitable solutions by consulting professionals.