1. Listen and understand: Give her a safe space and let her know that you can unconditionally listen to her feelings. Tell her that it's normal for everyone to take time to process and digest past emotions after ending a relationship. Don't rush to interrupt or deny her feelings, but express your understanding in gentle words, such as: "I know you still have his shadow in your heart, it's okay, I'm willing to accompany you through this period
2. Positive guidance and encouragement: Encourage her to face and accept her feelings, but at the same time, help her see hope and beauty for the future. It can be said: "Memories are beautiful, but more importantly, our present and future. You deserve better people and things, and I will always be by your side to support you in finding your own happiness." Through positive words, enhance her confidence and expectations for the future.
3. Creating new memories together: Propose to participate in some new and meaningful activities together, such as traveling, learning new skills, or trying new hobbies. These shared experiences can help her shift her focus, gradually fade her attachment to the past, and establish more beautiful memories between you. Let her feel the joy and satisfaction of being with you, and cherish the current relationship even more. Let's plan a short weekend trip to a place you've always wanted to go to, and let's create beautiful memories together