1. Self reflection and motivation: You will feel a sense of motivation, realizing the excellence of your predecessor and reflecting on your own shortcomings. This feeling drives you to work harder to improve yourself, whether in academics, work, or personal growth, hoping to reach or surpass the level of your predecessor.
2. Emotional complexity: On the one hand, one may feel proud of their ex's excellence, after all, they have been with them before; On the other hand, one may also feel pressure and anxiety as a result, worrying about whether they will be able to find someone equally or better in future relationships, or fearing that they will no longer be able to develop the same profound emotions towards others.
3. Growth and release: With the passage of time, one will gradually realize that the value of each person is not only defined by their external excellence. Start learning to appreciate your uniqueness and realize that mutual understanding and support are more important in relationships. Ultimately, one can let go of the shadow brought by their ex's excellence and face future relationships and life with a more mature and confident attitude.