1. Clearly state the facts: objectively and specifically describe the cause, process, and outcome of the contradiction. For example, "Today at school, Xiaoming and I had a dispute over borrowing a book. He had promised to lend me a book, but later reneged on his promise. I felt like he didn't keep his promise, so we had a few arguments
2. Expressing personal feelings: Then, honestly express your feelings in this conflict. I feel very disappointed and puzzled because I believe that friends should trust and support each other. This incident has made me feel a little uncomfortable
3. Propose a solution or seek advice: Express your desire to resolve the conflict, or seek advice from parents. For example, "I want to find an opportunity to have a good talk with Xiaoming and see if we can resolve the misunderstanding. At the same time, I also want to hear your opinion. How do you think I should handle this situation better?" or "I don't know what to do next to restore our relationship to its original state. Can you give me some advice