1. Understand the reasons: Listen patiently to both parties' perspectives and understand the specific reasons for each argument. It may be due to poor communication, differences in expectations, accumulation of daily trivialities, etc. Finding the root cause of a problem through communication is the first step in solving it.
2. Promote effective communication: Set up family meetings: Regularly schedule family meetings to encourage open and honest communication, giving both daughters and mothers the opportunity to express their feelings and needs. Learn communication skills: Guide family members to learn how to communicate effectively, including listening, expressing feelings instead of blaming, seeking consensus, and other skills. Establishing consensus: For common conflict points, try to find solutions that are acceptable to both parties and establish family rules or agreements.
3. Enhance emotional connection: Participate in activities together: Arrange some activities or interest groups for mothers and daughters to participate in together, to enhance mutual understanding and feelings. Expressing love: Encourage family members to use positive language to express love and gratitude, and reduce the accumulation of negative emotions. Professional assistance: If the problem persists and is difficult to solve, you may consider seeking the help of a psychological counselor or family therapist to provide a professional solution.