1. Contact only when needed: Boys only proactively contact you when they feel bored, lonely, or need to confide, and rarely or never initiate topics in their daily lives.
2. Single and shallow topic: The conversation content mostly revolves around his daily trivialities, emotional fluctuations, or personal interests, lacking in-depth exploration or interest in understanding your life, and the conversation appears superficial.
3. Not caring about your feelings and life: During the conversation, he rarely asks or cares about your daily life, feelings, or future plans, and more often expresses his own thoughts and feelings.