1. Behavioral performance: Observe whether she frequently changes partners, has a frivolous attitude towards relationships, often maintains ambiguous relationships with multiple people at the same time, or exhibits irresponsible behavior in relationships.
2. Verbal attitude: Pay attention to whether she often makes unreasonable demands on her partner but is unwilling to give corresponding care and understanding; Do you often exaggerate and provide false descriptions of your emotional experiences or personal conditions; And whether there is a lack of sincerity and depth when discussing emotions, appearing frivolous or utilitarian.
3. Treating others: Observe how she treats friends, family, and ex partners, and whether she shows any behavior that disrespects, exploits, or harms others. A truly kind person usually exhibits more empathy and sense of responsibility in interpersonal relationships, while scumbags may be more inclined to use others to satisfy their own needs.