1. Seeking emotional satisfaction: Married women may feel emotional emptiness or dissatisfaction in their marriage for various reasons. Chatting flirtatiously with the opposite sex may be a way to seek additional emotional attention, recognition, or stimulation, in order to fill the void in one's heart or find novelty.
2. Self value confirmation: Through ambiguous communication with other men, married women may try to confirm their charm and attractiveness, especially when they may feel neglected or their self-worth questioned in marriage. This kind of communication can be a way for them to enhance their confidence and confirm that they are still attractive in the eyes of the opposite sex.
3. Escaping reality or seeking an outlet: Faced with pressure, dissatisfaction, or conflict in marriage, having ambiguous conversations with the opposite sex may become a way for married women to escape reality. This behavior may temporarily make them forget the troubles in their marriage, or serve as a means to explore other possibilities and find emotional outlets. However, this behavior is often only a temporary escape and cannot truly solve the problem.