1. Establish a friendly connection: Reconnect in a relaxed and friendly manner through social media or text messages, such as asking if he has been doing well recently, or sharing a small matter related to his interests, such as "I recently watched a movie you recommended before and felt it was great, how about you?" Avoid directly mentioning emotional issues and maintain a relaxed atmosphere in the conversation.
2. Show positive changes: Share your recent life changes or achievements, especially those that showcase your personal growth and positive attitude, such as learning new skills, travel experiences, or success in work. Make him feel that you have become more independent, confident, and charming, which often attracts his attention again.
3. Create opportunities for natural meetings: If possible, invite him to participate in a mutual friend event, or suggest doing things that both of you are interested in together, such as visiting exhibitions, drinking coffee, etc. When meeting, maintain eye contact, show a sincere smile, and let him feel your warmth and kindness. Meanwhile, pay attention to listening to his sharing and give a positive response. It's important to make everything happen naturally and not intentionally, avoiding putting pressure on him or making him feel like you're forcing him back into a past relationship.