1. Sincere reflection and apology: Deeply reflect on the specific behaviors and reasons that led to her resentment. Express your sincere apologies to her through letters, face-to-face conversations, or video calls, ensuring that your apology is specific rather than generic, and making her feel your sincerity and remorse. At the same time, express your determination to change and work hard.
2. Positive change and action: Based on the results of reflection, develop clear change plans and put them into practice. This may include improving communication methods, increasing care and understanding towards her, resolving previous issues or bad habits, etc. Prove through practical actions that your changes are real, not just empty talk. Meanwhile, maintain patience and continuous effort, as changing and rebuilding trust takes time.
3. Reconnect and communicate: At the appropriate time, try to reconnect with her in a relaxed and stress free manner. You can start with daily greetings and sharing life details, gradually deepening communication. Maintain an open and listening attitude during the communication process, and respect her feelings and opinions. At the same time, seek common interests or topics to enhance mutual understanding and closeness. If conditions permit, it is also possible to consider arranging some common activities or trips to create more beautiful memories.