1. Sincere communication, expressing inner feelings: choose a suitable time and place to ensure that both parties can communicate calmly. Be honest with him about your reflection after proposing the breakup, as well as the areas where you realized you may have overlooked or made mistakes in the relationship. Express your true feelings towards him, let him know that you care about him and are willing to work hard to improve the relationship.
2. Showcasing change and growth: Based on the issues mentioned in your previous communication, specify the measures you have taken or are currently taking to change yourself, such as improving communication skills, increasing common interests, improving personal habits, etc. Prove through practical actions that your changes are sincere, such as regularly sharing your progress or achievements with others, allowing them to see your efforts and determination. Invite him to participate in your change process, such as trying new things together, planning for the future, etc., to enhance mutual interaction and trust.
3. Give space and patience: Respect his feelings and decisions, don't rush for success. Give him enough time to think and deal with his emotions. During this period, maintain appropriate contact but avoid excessive entanglement or pressure. You can share some positive content through SMS, email, or social media to make them feel your presence and care. Be prepared to accept any outcome, including the possibility that he may need more time or ultimately decide not to reconcile. But regardless of the outcome, you have already put in effort for yourself and this relationship, which is something to be proud of.