1. Sincere communication, expressing apologies and reluctance: Find a suitable time and quiet environment to have a sincere face-to-face conversation with her. Express your understanding and respect for her decision, while sincerely apologizing, pointing out possible issues in the relationship (such as ignoring her feelings, inadequate communication, etc.), and stating that you have deeply reflected and are willing to correct them. Tell her that you still love her deeply and do not want to lose this relationship, and hope that both parties can work together to find a solution.
2. Show change and determination: Show your change and determination through practical actions. This includes but is not limited to: developing and sharing personal growth plans, such as learning how to listen better, improving emotional management skills, or increasing time for shared interests; Regularly communicate with her about your progress and feelings, so that she can see that your efforts and changes are real and continuous; Doing something special for her, such as preparing her favorite dinner, planning and completing a short trip together, can make her feel your dedication and anticipation for the future.
3. Give her space and respect, while maintaining contact: In the process of recovery, give her enough space to think and calm down, and avoid excessive entanglement or pressure. But at the same time, it is also important to maintain moderate contact, such as briefly greeting her through text messages or phone calls, expressing your concern but not forcing her to respond. Be a solid support for her when she needs it, let her know that you are always there and willing to wait for her to be ready to try again. Show your maturity and patience, and make her feel valued and respected for your emotions.