1. Not completely letting go or seeking peaceful coexistence: Some people choose to be friends with their ex because they have not completely withdrawn from their relationship and hope to continue a certain emotional connection by maintaining contact, or hope to gradually fade past feelings as friends over time, ultimately achieving inner reconciliation and self acceptance.
2. Cherish past experiences and shared memories: They believe that the time spent with their ex is precious, and even if the relationship is no longer, those memories and experiences are still worth cherishing. As friends, you can continue to share the bits and pieces of life, preserve those beautiful memories, and avoid completely losing contact with each other.
3. Mature and rational attitude: Some people are able to view breakups with maturity and rationality, realizing that even if they are no longer lovers, they can still support each other as friends. They believe that good communication and mutual respect can transcend emotional boundaries, allowing both parties to continue playing positive roles in each other's lives.