1. Listen and show interest: Give the other person sufficient listening time and express interest in their topic through nonverbal means such as nodding and smiling.
2. Propose open-ended questions: Avoid true or false questions, and use more "why", "how", etc. to guide her to share her thoughts and experiences in depth.
3. Share similar experiences or feelings: Finding common ground and sharing one's own related experiences or feelings can stimulate resonance and promote more communication.