1. Use a light hearted and humorous topic to start: Send an interesting emoji or picture with the text: "Haha, isn't the little cat you met today a bit cute like you?" This kind of opening is both light hearted and playful, which can quickly bring each other closer.
2. Moderately showcase personal life and maintain a sense of mystery: Share some of your daily small things, but not necessarily every detail. Today I tried making my own coffee latte art, although it failed, the process was so interesting! And you, do you have any new attempts? "This not only allowed him to understand your life, but also left room for imagination. Occasionally mention some of your little secrets or dreams, but don't necessarily explain them all. For example, "I have always had a small dream of traveling around the world, and the first place I want to go is..." Such sharing can increase his curiosity about you.
3. Use hints and rhetorical questions to deepen interaction: Add some ambiguous hints in the chat at the appropriate time, such as: "Sometimes I feel comfortable chatting with you, don't know if you feel that way?" This expression is not too direct and can make him feel good about you. Use rhetorical questions to guide him to share more: "Have there been any movies that have left a particularly deep impression on you recently? I really want to watch a movie that can make people laugh and cry." Such questions not only continue the topic, but also make him feel your attention and interest in him.
Through the above three points, you can establish a flirtatious and pleasant chat atmosphere with boys while maintaining a natural and non deliberate attitude.