1. Clear communication: Communicate openly with her, express your feelings, and express the hope that both parties can share household chores or tasks equally, avoiding being manipulated unilaterally.
2. Setting boundaries: On the basis of respecting each other, set reasonable personal boundaries, clarify what things you are willing to do and what needs to be jointly decided or shared by both parties.
3. Seeking cooperation: Propose a cooperation plan, such as creating a household division of labor table, taking turns to be responsible for different tasks, or jointly completing a certain task to enhance mutual understanding and collaboration.