1. Stay calm and respectful: Do not rush to react or show anxiety. Give the other party some space and time, and respect their choices. It is possible to reduce the frequency of actively contacting her appropriately, but maintain friendliness and politeness to avoid putting pressure on her.
2. Self reflection and improvement: Use this time to reflect on yourself and consider whether there are any inappropriate words or actions or areas that need improvement. Strive to improve oneself, both in terms of external image and internal cultivation, to become more attractive. At the same time, it is important to maintain a positive attitude and believe in one's own value.
3. Find the right time and way to communicate: When you feel the time is right, you can try to communicate with her in a relaxed and natural way. You can start by discussing common interests or recent events, gradually narrowing the distance. It is important to express one's thoughts and feelings sincerely, while also listening to her opinions and thoughts, and respecting each other's differences. If direct communication is still difficult, you can consider indirectly enhancing understanding through mutual friends or activities.