1. Find common interests: Ask the other person about their hobbies and interests, such as "What do you like to do to relax yourself?" or "Have you recently watched any movies/books that you think are particularly good?" Based on her answers, share your relevant experiences or feelings, establish resonance points, and let the conversation continue naturally.
2. Maintain active listening and ask questions: When she shares her story or viewpoint, use affirmative eye contact and body language to indicate that you are listening attentively. Timely ask open-ended questions such as "How did that happen?" or "What impact do you think this experience had on you?" to encourage her to continue speaking. Avoid interruptions and give her enough time to express her thoughts.
3. Introduce new topics or engage in in-depth discussions: If the current topic is about to end, you can cleverly introduce a new topic, such as "When it comes to travel, where do you most want to go?" or "Do you have any plans or dreams for the future?" If you find a topic interesting, you can dig deeper, such as exploring different perspectives on a certain viewpoint or sharing more relevant knowledge and information. Pay attention to her reaction, and if she is not interested in the new topic or appears tired, end the conversation or switch to a more relaxed topic at the appropriate time.