1. Confidence and determination: Having a firm self-awareness and confidence, not afraid of external stereotypes of gender roles, and needing strong inner support when deciding to become the active party in a relationship.
2. Communication skills: Good communication skills are the key to building healthy relationships, being able to express one's needs and feelings directly and honestly, while also knowing how to listen and understand the other person.
3. Emotional maturity: The ability to handle complex emotions, including understanding, accepting, and responding to one's own emotional fluctuations in a relationship, as well as respecting the other person's feelings and needs, and maintaining balance and harmony in the relationship.