1. Respect her feelings: Understand and respect your girlfriend's personal boundaries and comfort level. Everyone has their own physical space and emotional needs, and one should not force the other person to do anything they are unwilling to do.
2. Communication understanding: Try to communicate openly with her in a relaxed and private moment, asking her for specific thoughts and concerns about physical contact. Understanding her inner thoughts can help you find a better way to get along with her.
3. Establish trust and intimacy: Gradually deepen the trust and intimacy between you through daily small interactions, common interests and hobbies, and emotional support. When a relationship naturally develops to a certain extent, physical contact often becomes more natural and smooth.