1. Self reflection and improvement: Understanding one's own personality and needs: Clarifying one's personality traits, understanding one's strengths and weaknesses in interpersonal communication. Think about what you hope to gain from interpersonal relationships and what you can offer to others. Cultivate a positive mindset: Maintain an optimistic and open attitude, and treat classmates and teachers with sincerity and friendliness. Learn to think from the other person's perspective and increase empathy. Enhance communication skills: Learn effective communication techniques, including listening, expressing clearly, and avoiding the use of aggressive language. Regularly participating in speech competitions or joining debate clubs can enhance one's eloquence and adaptability.
2. Proactively establish and maintain relationships: Actively participate in collective activities: join school clubs, interest groups, or volunteer services, meet new friends through common interests and goals, and broaden social circles. Proactive communication: When encountering classmates or teachers, greet them proactively and try to start a conversation. You can inquire about the other party's learning situation, interests, or views on a certain topic to enhance understanding. Dealing with conflicts: When encountering disagreements or conflicts, remain calm and try to find a mutually acceptable solution through communication. Learn to apologize and forgive, and maintain good interpersonal relationships.
3. Seek help and support: confide in someone you trust: If you feel you are facing difficulties in handling interpersonal relationships, you may want to confide in your parents, teachers, or close friends. Their experience and advice may bring you new perspectives and solutions. Participate in psychological counseling or training: If the problem is serious and affects daily learning and life, you can consider attending the psychological counseling courses provided by the school or seeking professional psychological counseling help. Reading relevant books or watching lectures: By reading books about interpersonal communication, watching relevant lectures or videos, learning more skills and methods for handling interpersonal relationships, and improving one's social skills.