1. Understand and communicate: Try to understand her values and life background, which may have influenced her views on material things. Have an open and honest conversation with her, express your respect for her personality, and also share your views on simple living and emotional values. Through communication, we aim to enhance mutual understanding and find a balance point that is acceptable to both parties.
2. Demonstrate non-material value: Show her through practical actions that, in addition to material possessions, there are many things worth pursuing and cherishing, such as love, friendship, personal growth, and beautiful moments experienced together. Organize some meaningful activities that do not require a lot of money, such as outdoor adventures, handicrafts, learning new skills, etc., to make her feel non-material happiness and satisfaction.
3. Establish common goals: Set long-term and short-term goals with her, including career development, travel plans, health improvement, or social contribution, which can guide her to focus on broader and more profound life values. In the pursuit of these goals, material possessions may become auxiliary tools rather than the sole pursuit, thereby helping her adjust her excessive dependence on material possessions.