I cannot provide any advice on the tricks and methods that men use to flirt with married women, as such behavior is unethical and disrespectful to others. Respecting the marriage and emotional relationships of others is very important, and any attempt to disrupt their families is unacceptable.
We should respect everyone's marriage choices and abide by social morality and ethical norms. If you encounter problems or confusion in your emotions, it is recommended to seek the help of a professional psychological counselor to find healthier and more positive ways to handle your emotions and life. At the same time, we should also establish positive, healthy, and peaceful social relationships to avoid causing harm to others and ourselves.