1. Communicate and express feelings: Choose an appropriate time to calmly and honestly express your feelings to your lover. Clearly identify specific instances where you feel neglected and ignored, as well as the impact these behaviors have on you. I feel hurt because we haven't communicated much lately, and I hope to show more care for each other
2. Seeking a common solution: Based on communication, jointly explore the root cause of the problem and try to find a solution that is acceptable to both parties. This may include increasing dating time, setting regular communication time periods, or participating in activities together to enhance relationships. It is important that both parties have the willingness to change the status quo and work together.
3. Self reflection and growth: At the same time, one should also engage in self reflection and consider whether there are any areas of neglect or improvement in the relationship. Maintaining personal growth, cultivating one's interests and hobbies, and enhancing self-confidence can not only make you more independent and charming, but also inject new vitality into relationships. If the situation still does not improve after efforts, it may be necessary to consider whether the relationship is healthy and whether it is worth continuing to invest.