1. Accumulation of materials and knowledge: Extensive reading: By reading books, news, jokes, etc., accumulate various knowledge points and humorous materials, and understand interesting stories and cultures in different fields. Observing life: Pay attention to interesting things in daily life and people's reactions, extract humorous elements from them, and these real interesting things often resonate the most. Learning Classics: Watch comedy performances, talk shows, cross-talk shows, and other programs to learn how masters construct humor, use language and body language to express humor.
2. Practice expression skills: Moderate self mockery: Moderate self mockery can bring people closer, but it is important to be mindful and avoid hurting self-esteem. Exaggeration and Reversal: Using exaggerated techniques or unexpected reversals to create humor and make conversations more vivid and interesting. Metaphor and Analogy: Using appropriate metaphors or analogies to simplify and make complex or abstract concepts more interesting, enhancing the effectiveness of expression. Listening and Responding: Listen carefully to the other person's speech, seize the highlights or pitfalls, and respond with wit, demonstrating your sense of humor.
3. Cultivate confidence and relaxation: Mental adjustment: Maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, believe in your ability to become humorous and witty. Don't be afraid of failure or silence, every attempt is an opportunity for growth. Relax yourself: Maintain a relaxed state when communicating with others, without being too nervous or deliberately pursuing humorous effects. Natural humor often attracts more people. Practical experience: Actively participate in social activities and communicate with different types of people. Continuously hone one's sense of humor and enhance their communication skills through practice.
By following the above three suggestions and consistently practicing and reflecting, you will gradually become a person who can speak and has a sense of humor.